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Know when to quit

I’m a person who doesn’t know when to quit because my parents never seemed to question unhappiness. If you started something, you had to finish it no matter what.

Despite this damaging determination, the family has rarely been very successful at anything, and the only member who worked hard enough to be successful was also the one who knew when to retire early and enjoy the rest of his life.

I am also a psychic medium, which means I work with the spirit world. As part of my job it is customary to ask for help and then look for the answers. This week I was given an answer that was so clear and categorical that I couldn’t miss the meaning, however it took someone else to point it out to me.

Why is it so difficult for us to let go of the things that make us unhappy?

I once had a client who was very unhappy with her life and didn’t know what to do or how to make decisions. I thought about this for a moment running various complex formulas in my mind, and then I asked my Guide for inspiration and he said:

“The answer is simple, if something makes you happy, do it, if it makes you unhappy, don’t do it, or change it.”

We had a great discussion after that statement, working very hard to complicate it, and yet when it comes down to it, it’s a very effective way of making decisions.

Yes, we talk about romantic relationships, particularly when children are involved, and we all know how difficult it is to break a relationship when children are going to be hurt too. We made it as complicated as possible, but when you stop to think about it, if you’re not happy, the kids will notice and they won’t be happy either.

We talk about work and the need to earn money, but no matter how hard you try to complicate it, it all comes down to the simple fact that it is possible to enjoy your work and earn money doing something you love or in a happy environment where you earned. He doesn’t care that his job is mundane.

Every time we tried to complicate an issue in life we ​​couldn’t help but return to that basic simplicity that he shared with us. If you are not satisfied, try changing whatever it is that is doing it like this, or walk away from it.

I’m about to put my money where my mouth is and walk away from an opportunity that could have been brilliant, it has had its wonderful aspects, but at the end of the day it has frustrated and angered me from the get-go.

From now on I choose happiness.

Wishing you happy days and quiet nights

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